I belong to a small poetry group of 10 people who meet every month. For a few years now we have exchanged Secret Santa gifts up to £10 per gift. Things are not that easy financially this year and I have decided to support my local animal and wildlife rescue centre instead of spending well over £100 on cards and gifts. Should I be the only one in the group to stick to my beliefs or am I being a meany Moana and spoiling their tradition? I know for a fact that my £100 would be put to very good use on food and medicine for the animals. Is it an 'if you want to be in my gang...' scenario?
Mattress causing back pain - or is it me getting old?? Advice please.