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tanith Sun 11-Aug-13 19:19:08

My neighbour has a dog and he has recently started barking/howling/whining whenever the owner is out and if its getting on my nerves its surely annoying the whole neighbourhood. He did this as a young pup but got over it and has been well behaved and quiet up till the last few weeks this just started out of the blue for no good reason we've been able to fathom, my neighbour is now a single man and of course has to work/have a social life but the dog just makes so much noise when he's alone. He has a plenty of space in the garden with large kennel/toys/food/water and I do feel a bit sorry for the neighbour as he is very fond of his dog and always runs him before and after work each day and is really upset that the dog is causing the neighbours to complain about the noise. He can't be left in the house as he is destructive.

So any suggestions what he can do? I thought about suggestion one of those electric things that are supposed to curb a barking dog but I don't even know if they work or how. I've tried going in and spending a few minutes with him during the day but it doesn't help as soon as I leave he starts again . He is too boisterous for me to walk him and needs a strong arm to walk him. I'd be grateful for any suggestions as one neighbour is threatening to call the RSPCA , whether they would do anything or not I don't know.

Tegan Sun 11-Aug-13 19:22:50

Could he not take him to a doggy day care centre? Someone I work with takes her dogs to one and he loves it [and someone on here does the same; sorry but I've forgotten who it is]. They're also very good at sorting out behavioural problems as well.

peaches41 Sun 11-Aug-13 19:24:39

No you really shouldn't have to put up with it. Try telling your neighbour that it is spoiling your peace and tell him that another neighbour (don't say who) is threatening to call the RSPCA. It is then up to him to do something about it.

Greatnan Sun 11-Aug-13 19:45:18

You could call your Environmental Health Dept. Or suggest your neighbour gets another dog to keep it company.

tanith Sun 11-Aug-13 19:48:15

He already knows as the neighbour has told him what she intends and he does know its causing a problem , I could suggest the day care but I've never heard of it around here but I will ask him to investigate.

merlotgran Sun 11-Aug-13 19:56:50

I think the RSPCA will take a dim view of a dog being left outside all day even if it does have a kennel and toys etc. Some working dogs, like collies, live outside but they are accustomed to it from an early age and also have a suitable temperament.

Poor dog.

vegasmags Sun 11-Aug-13 20:29:43

I don't think it's a good idea for a single person at work all day to have a dog at all. Dogs need company. It is probably destructive in the house because it is lonely, bored and stressed. If he can't find suitable care for the dog during the day, he should really rehome it. It isn't fair on the dog or the neighbours.

Iam64 Sun 11-Aug-13 20:36:58

Vegasmags is right about it not being a good idea to leave a dog alone for long periods. Dogs are social creatures, and if they aren't entertained, they'll find their own entertainment. Being destructive indoors, and howling/barking in the garden are signs of stress, and are ways this dog is entertaining itself. As the dog has shelter from the weather, is fed properly and exercised regularly so I would honestly be surprised if the RSPCA could/would do anything, despite the psychological distress the dog is displaying. Doggy Day Care is a good idea, if the owner wants to keep his dog. I'm sure he loves the dog, but he isn't meeting it's needs. If he won't pay up for doggy day care of some kind, re-homing sounds the way to go

merlotgran Sun 11-Aug-13 20:44:35

The RSPCA will definitely act if they think the dog is showing signs of distress due to boredom and anxiety. The owner will be advised to re-home it.

Tegan Sun 11-Aug-13 21:06:53

What sort of dog is it? I'm only asking because some dogs suffer mentally if their mind's aren't kept occupied [collies, German Shepherds etc].

janeainsworth Sun 11-Aug-13 21:21:44

Just listening to Face the Facts on Radio 4
www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b037v4fp
Damning criticism of the RSPCA

tanith Sun 11-Aug-13 23:18:03

I don't know what breed he is, short haired very strong about the size of a medium alsatian.. he's a cross of some kind , I'm not a doggy person. I will pass on some of your thoughts and ideas and he will have to deal with it in his own way I guess.. but deal with it he will have to.

glammanana Sun 11-Aug-13 23:29:42

tanith you say your neighbour is now a single man,does that mean that there was someone at home during the day with the dog and now he is left to his own devices,if he has been used to company before he is probably fretting for company again,it looks very much like your neighbour will have to think about rehoming which is a sad case of affairs if he has also had a break up in a relationship.

Joan Mon 12-Aug-13 02:05:48

Could you offer to let him play in your garden? We used to have a little dog, Titch, who ended up being alone when I went back to work. On my first day, i asked my neighbour to tell me how my dog coped. Titch was outside, but free to roam the garden and go into the laundry and the workroom under the house.

Well, my neighbour told me Titch had cried all day. I was horrified, but she offered to let her sleep on her porch while I was away. She was a widow and a bit lonely. So that is what happened. When we all set off to school and work, Titch trotted off to my neighbour's place and everyone was happy.

In return, I used to set my neighbour's hair every Saturday, and dye it when necessary.

Another thing your neighbour could do, would be to set one room aside for the dog during the day, and have only the dog's toys and bed in there. larger dogs seem to have strong bladders and don't need to pee for hours and hours.

NfkDumpling Mon 12-Aug-13 07:32:48

The dog is obviously stressed at being left alone so perhaps a second dog to keep him company? Otherwise the only option is to look around for a daytime dog minder.

nanaej Mon 12-Aug-13 07:45:46

www.helenspetcareservice.com/pet_services/dog_day_care_ealing_chiswick.htm

Would this be useful tanith or too far away?

JessM Mon 12-Aug-13 07:51:02

I agree, not appropriate leaving dog outside all day in an urban environment. It is fine if you live in the middle of the country I guess. Most dogs will sleep a lot if nothing is happening.
You need to first talk to your neighbour. In the house, in a cage, would stop him disturbing neighbours.

whenim64 Mon 12-Aug-13 08:04:11

A dog walker can come along to exercise him durng the day, or he could go to daycare. It's expensive at around £20 a day (his dog would not need to go every day) but the dog can run round under supervision, get training, be in the company of other dogs and caring humans, and come home exhausted. My dog goes twice a week, and that allows me to go out for a whole day, not worrying that she is on her own for long hours. The effect lasts so she just wants to be lazy the day after, but she gets her long walk and is content to mooch around the house and garden. Daycare is good for extinguishing behavioural problems - the one my dog goes to has trained and qualifed staff and a dog behaviourist who will spend time on dealing with any problem behaviours, like pulling on the lead, unnecessary barking or not coming when called.

shysal Mon 12-Aug-13 08:48:20

It definitely sounds like separation anxiety. There are pet behaviour specialists who can suggest strategies to help. DD2 had this problem, which was solved. At least the owner is wanting to stop the barking etc., so perhaps you could find some contact details on the internet or yellow pages for him.

shysal Mon 12-Aug-13 08:57:31

Try this site. www.pet-behaviour.com/

nightowl Mon 12-Aug-13 08:58:28

That's an interesting link jane, thank you for posting it. The RSPCA is a terrible organisation. I didn't realise they don't have an independent complaints service. They are also very ready to put down healthy animals, not always in a humane manner. Does anyone remember the outcry when they used a bolt gun to put down several healthy German Shepherds?

I think the advice on doggy daycare is the best one, if the owner can afford it. He might also consider advertising locally for someone who might want some doggy company during the day, without the responsibility of owning a dog. Otherwise, if he wants to rehome the dog I would say take it anywhere but the RSPCA.

j08 Mon 12-Aug-13 09:18:04

I am so relieved that people are coming up with excellent solutions here! It would be so sad if he had to part with his dog.

when I can identify with your dog on the feeling knackered next day and only wanting to laze around, after a strenuous day out. grin

j08 Mon 12-Aug-13 09:19:08

(Your dog sounds very lucky) smile

petallus Mon 12-Aug-13 09:31:20

I thought that smile

Anne58 Mon 12-Aug-13 10:11:28

I don't think getting a second dog would be a good move, could result in 2 barking all day!

I think either dog day care, or find someone who is happy to have the dog during the day (may not even be necessary to walk him, if the owner is doing this, just somewhere where he has company).

Years ago my mother worked in an office just yards from her home. her Labrador would stay at home in the morning, but go to the office with Mum in the afternoon. This did on 2 occasions result in a slight problem, one incident involving a plate of cream cakes, and the other a diamond earring.

Then the company moved offices so this was no longer practical. Bronwen ended coming to me each day, to stay with her best friend Poppy. This worked really well.