My DGD is 11, and is becoming more and more overweight every time I see her! I would go as far as saying she is now clearly obese. My DS has her 3 weekends a month and works away in between. I only get to see her roughly once a month.
He still has a good relationship with her mother but unfortunately she is clinically obese. He tries to make sure she eats healthy when she is with him but obviously it’s not enough. I know he wants to approach the subject with her mom, who incidentally is a nice person but very touchy about her own weight and also suffers from depression.
I would dearly like to help and give some advice but honestly I’m at a loss as to how. She also has absolutely no exercise other than walking to the car and back! I’m also aware that I have absolutely no say in her care but feel so worried about her . She goes to high school in the autumn and I can see her suffering because we all know how cruel kids can be.
She already has some learning difficulties and this on top is so upsetting! Feeling better getting my worries off my chest but any words of advice would be welcome.
Our Welfare State. Is it broken?