My brother recently died and I’ve just been on the phone to my sister who lives in West Wales and is 81. My SIL asked me to put together some of our memories of his early life which we’ve done. Now neither of us have been close to him in his adult life he wasn’t easy to get on with and made very little effort for contact although his wife is lovely. He’s never visited my sister in Wales although she’s lived there 40+ yrs only meeting if she’s come to London for a weddings etc.
I’ve just told her it’s perfectly ok not to come to his funeral as it’s at least a 5 hr drive from Wales and for me it will be 20 mins, I’ll be going and I could represent her.
Her son would drive her if she asked him but she really doesn’t want him to have to take time off work and have to stay overnight in a hotel.
What do others think?
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