Hello
I have a non-existent working relationship with a colleague. Backstory: started off as a freelance for organisation a year ago. Colleagued seemed friendly and funny, and I thought he had my back as a temp. A few weeks ago, he suggested that my colleagues have a problem with me about how I am in business meetings. He is not in my team but does the same role in another team (so it's not actually his business as he's not my colleague in the direct team I work in, and he's not my boss). He suggested that I go into meetings and remain silent for one week. He talks about forgiving people but seemed quite keen to let me know what was going on. Not one colleague has said that they have a problem with me or my work. He has also stated that people hate another colleague (again, not in his team, in mine - and that's not true).I've been with the organisation for two years.
Colleagues have been shocked and sad for me that I have been left feeling that the wider team have a problem with me. Having spoken to a few they have said that he wanted to get in my team last year, that he's 'been caught trying to do this before' and that 'he's got it all wrong'.
When I came to work a couple of days ago, he went straight to my manager and complained about me. Another colleague said he only wants to work with certain people on the weekend. The Manager won't elaborate but seems to back me and then this colleague ignores me at work on a public facing desk for 8 months. That is because I know his game having spoken with a couple of colleagues so is throwing me under a bus.
The Manager wants me to stay in the job and is hugely supportive, telling me he's had complaints about him and to draw a line under it but I am feeling miserable about things.
If I stay - I have to deal with this guy giving me the silent treatment and continuing the same behaviour. If I go, he's won and the job/people are generally polite and professional. I should state I've not gone to HR or spoken with his boss or supervisors. Any advice?
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