Both my son and daughter bring their young dogs with them when they visit with their new families - one has a toddler and the other expects her first baby soon.
We have 3 older dogs and a cat and there are inevitable daily territorial marking accidents ( no culprit identified ! ) and a marked effect on the behaviour of our pets ( who then get blamed for being grumpy or spoilt )
The guest dogs are boisterous and our children become annoyed if we suggest that their dogs should follow the same regime as ours e.g. using the dog pen at times and/or sleeping in the boiler room at night.
We live in the countryside and take all the dogs out for long walks (occasionally the children come too) and generally ensure that they are fed,watered and let out as needed.
It's pretty stressful and takes much of the enjoyment out of what should be lovely relaxing family times.
This Summer my daughter, husband, dog ( and perhaps even their cat ) will be moving in with us for 6 months whilst their house is being renovated and a new baby arrives.
We want this to be as stress-free a time for them as for us and understand how much they love their animals but we are concerned that this could be a rocky road.
Any attempt to suggest compromises or establish house rules has failed completely and there has already been some huff-taking
We have suggested that the cat might be happier to be left at or nearby their house with a request to neighbours and builders to feed and keep and eye on it, supplemented by visits every other day.
Any advice on how this situation could be best-handled would be very welcome
34 year old assisted euthanasia