My gs is 30 months old and I have looked after him every Friday for the last 18 months or so. I think my husband and I have a really close relationship with my son and his gf and love having our gs for the day. They have been fairly strict since the beginning- fair enough, their child but mostly around taking him out. I haven’t had my car for the last 18 months as I’ve lent it to my son but I’ve always had to ask permission even to go for a walk. I’ve finally got my car back and was hoping to hang on to the car seat but they want to sell it. A few weeks ago they asked me to watch him at theirs as he’d had a long week!? This would be from 7.30 to 4.30. I texted and said could we grab the car seat and him and bring him back to ours as my husband had a rare Friday off and we had a few things to do locally. Also, that we want to spend the day together and he wants to spend time with his gs. I then received a text saying how unfair that was! We ended up having a row over the phone and did has taken Friday off for the past 3 weeks. We haven’t had any contact apart from my son saying we need to discuss things in the next few weeks. I have know idea why this is such a big ask. Going forward they had already asked me to watch him at theres from 7-5.30 each week. They live in an isolated area and with no car seat I can’t even walk to a park or shop. Is this fair?
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