I dont know what to do so I've come here as a last shot.
I'm so lost.
I raised my 3 children up under a really stressful and abusive relationship which ended in my husband attacking me and me leaving him because if i didnt i would have lost my kids to the social services system.
They had just hit teens, between 13 and 16 and it was really hard.
I had to come to terms with losing my ex family and bringing them up myself.
I thought i did a good job, they went through uni and all got degrees, one is doing their phd.
Recently my 2 girls came back home from living away, my son always lived with me and we've always got on well.
My daughters have accused my son of being aggressive and have effectively driven him out of the house. He's not allowed to come home, if he does i have to give prior warning and when he's here i get a hurl of abuse for him being here.
I've been trying to avoid my dds to keep the peace because i couldn't get my head around why he wasnt able to come home, and so i kept asking them and now they're saying I'm causing them anxiety and have accused me of lying and basically making their experience back home a nightmare. Effectively not being there for them when they need me the most.
Im so lost. I thought i did well. And now i feel like a failure.
They both hate me. They wont have a verbal discussion with me because they think i change the narrative every time we speak. All our conversations are dont over text now.
I dont know what to do.
This is the worst time of my life.
I've dealt with so much rejection in my life but this hurts the worst
Good Morning Sunday 28th April 2024
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?