My two siblings and i are unpaid carers for my 92 year old Dad, who now lives alone,we are all over 60 and this is now getting too much for us, he expects each of us on various days through out the week to stay with him- this is really about yesterday, even though i was not well, it was my turn to be with him, so i grudgelly went, and today i managed to get a doctors appt so left early, when i asked him if was ok with me going , -he just said "Do i any choice", -he tells every one including his doctor that he is a burden on his children.we would all like to arrange for carers for him but he does not want strangers in the house- saying "what will we talk about"-sometimes i really resent him for all the pressure he puts on us.He is not short of money therefore will not get any help from social services, how can we get him to see sense and get someone to be with him dsily and we can just pop in when we have time, as at the moment all of us have to plan our days around being with him.
Cross partyAsylum seekers in UK should have right to work after six months!