DD is married to an Australian, has three children, 20, 18, 15. Has been there 23 years.
When the children were small, we tried to go over for 3 weeks at a time, every year. DD was a stay-at-home mum, and we just spent time with her and the children, playing, shopping, everyday things. Weekends when SIL was not working, would go to the beach or similar.
Fast forward to now. They all work or are at college, now live in Canberra, have lived in Sydney and Perth previously, SIL’s job has taken them to different cities.
We haven’t visited for 5 years, Covid got in the way. Speak to DD weekly, have mentioned us coming again, but she hasn’t seemed very enthusiastic.
I know it’s not the same as when the GC were small. 5 adults fill the house now, not much room for us, and as previously said, all have busy lives.
Last time we went, we did a round- the-country tour,(just us two), taking in Uluru, Adelaide, Melbourne, Alice Springs, The Great Barrier Reef etc, and met up with them in Sydney for a long weekend.
We could stay in a hotel/B&B near to them in Canberra, and meet up, but neither of us like city life.
The truth is, apart from seeing DD and family, Australia is not really where I want to spend a holiday. We have seen most of the interesting bits, and don’t really know how to work it out. Am sure the GC would like to see us again, but after an initial meet and greet, don’t think they want to hang around with us oldies.
They wouldn’t come over here, even if we paid their fares, and just not feasible for 5 of them.
Sorry for the long post, does anyone else have this sort of dilemma, or is it just us?
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