First of all, I feel that I need to say that I feel lucky with my DIL, we love her like one of our own children and love our GD. We are lucky enough to live close by and care for GD one day a week while her parents are working. In addition to that she spends two days at nursery and each parent compresses hours so they each have a day at home. Theyre really lucky with a very flexible employer.
Our DIL is about to go on maternity leave with her second child, our second GC.
It hasn’t been officially discussed but our Son told us last week that they still intend to send older little one to nursery two days a week (at over £85 a day I see this as extravagant if you’re at home but that’s up to them)
He also said that they assume we will still be having GD a day a week as usual? This is while he is on a months Paternity leave and while my DIL will be at home for a year on Maternity leave. I didn’t know what to say and I’m flabbergasted to be honest!! while we are happy to do our bit childcare wise to help them earn a living it seems very odd that they want us to do it while they sit at home / whatever with the new baby?
My husband has recently had surgery and we were looking forward to a rest for a while. AIBU? Is this “normal”.
I had four children of my own and when another came along it just added to the stress / fun / work. Please help me put this in perspective Grans x
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