Hi grans. Would love some opinions on this … it was a special birthday last week and my husband arranged a surprise party for me. I wanted spend evening with my adult children, drinks, nibbles etc but when I arrived at my daughter home, there were all my work friends! I had cards, gifts, speeches etc. I was dying inside of deep embarrassment but at the same time feeling so deeply appreciative. I can’t stop thinking about and cringing; I’m such a private person and don’t mix family/work friends. I know, sounds a bit weird! I feel so upset with my husband for misjudging and not knowing that I would hate a surprise party ( 27 yrs married so he should know me by now!). Any advice for me please on moving past this awful, sickly feeling of discomfort and embarrassment?
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