I posted recently about whether husband should go in care home or be at home with me
Since then , the mdt meeting at care home has recommended he should go into nursing home as he has mobility issues , pressure sore etc
But he is now back in hospital as doctor wanted to investigate why he has lost so much weight (8 kilos in 3 weeks and previous to that 10 kilos in 4 weeks in august while in hospital)
They have found nothing suspicious so it just appears that he is losing weight because he has not been eating well either in hospita
, at respite nursing home etc
So I am now wondering whether I should have him back home to try and feed him up?
He does eat when I feed him as I don’t let him say no
Whereas the nursing home staff say they can’t force him to eat
I just worry that if he ends up permanently in a nursing home , he will just gradually fade away and die
Please can you tell me what you think ?
Many many thanks
34 year old assisted euthanasia