Work resignation

I think your company are just covering their own a***s, as the saying goes.
You could just send non committal reply, thanking them for the offer, but I don't think you're obliged to.

Hope they are but I still have the other emails and messages saved just incase

I’d leave on a high - be pleasant, but say thank you for their offer but you’ve made up your mind that it’s time for a change. DD1 calls these ‘sh*t sandwiches!’

Congratulations on your new job. It sounds as though you will be much better off there. It does sound as though your old employer is having either an attack of conscience (probably not) or wondering how they will manage to get someone as accommodating as you. They didn’t treat you well, especially during the pandemic and they have certainly haven’t earned your loyalty. Don’t give in, onward and upward and good luck ?xx

Very wise.
Just think, you'll be free of them soon!

I posted on here too, about job related issues - mostly because I'm such a coward about resigning or leaving a job.

The way they have treated you I think you owe them nothing..

Congratulations on your new job ?.

Just thank them for the offer and decline politely. Always good to leave on a good note if you can as you may need them for a reference.

Good for you Nanna29. Congratulations on your new job.
Just email the old employer, thank them for their offer of support albeit late in the day.
No need to feel guilty, a wasted emotion, unfortunately and unreasonably suffered by most of us.
Go forward now and enjoy your new adventure.

this shows the value of joining a union.
information is power, and unity is strength.
please, esp anyone who is a careworker, join a union. GMB has done a lot of work in the sector.
carework is v isolating, and exhausting, and employers prey on this, plus the actual caring nature of their workers, to exploit them.
well done, OP, an example to others.
onward and upward.

Well done!

A polite "Thanks but No Thanks" will be fine.

You can bet that if you did change your mind and stay, they'd be as bad as ever.

I'd send a polite email acknowledging theirs, thanking them, but nothing else.
I never like to burn my bridges.

I agree with what's already been said Nanna, a polite thanks but no thanks is all you need to respond with.

Congratulations on getting another job. Your soon to be ex employer has lost a great member of staff and maybe that's beginning to dawn on them.

Reply politely, thank them but say unfortunately is now to late to take advantage of your offer of help. That way they can't produce their email and say she ignored our offer .

I agree with eazybee. Congratulations and I hope your new employer treats you properly. The existing one doesn’t seem to understand contractual conditions.

Congratulations on the new job!

I think they have realised that they could and should have done things differently and are trying to cover their tracks.

In the event that you might need a reference at some point in the future or the old employers might stir things up then keep all emails, letters etc between you and them. I sincerely hope they don't cause problems but you never know do you?

Enjoy your new position, you certainly sounds very upbeat about it.

Congrats on the new job, the way your former employers have treated you is disgusting! Quite frankly I would ignore them now, they didn’t have any respect for you, so I’d show the same back, you owe them zilch! Hope you will be very happy, they have lost a valuable worker

Don’t ignore them. You may need a reference from them one day.

Well done in getting a new job ! I would just be very pleasant and polite and say how you have enjoyed working for them but it is time to move on.

Thank you so much everyone im very excited to start my new job. I will very politely tell them thanks but no thanks

They are probably covering their own backs. You could have accused them of constructive dismissal
uk.indeed.com/hire/c/info/constructive-dismissal-examples?gclid=Cj0KCQjwjbyYBhCdARIsAArC6LLRWA3wGjHYt8mNJUf6oBiQ7HEZmHcrO5h1bwTsDamHVwR4IIVGWYoaAv3IEALw_wcB&hl=en&aceid=&co=GB
Good luck in your new job.

Yes union have said this i just want to move on as I feel as light as a feather now im so relaxed and happy

Just a little tip, make sure any conditions you have mentioned to the new employer are stated in your contract of employment, otherwise you !at be back were you started. Good luck with you new job you sound like someone who wants to please your employers but just make sure they don't take advantage of you again.

I agree, best to move on. You probably have a case against your former employer but going to a tribunal is a stressful business and employers steer clear of hiring someone who has, no matter how justified the reason, taken action against a former employer.

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I agree, best to move on. You probably have a case against your former employer but going to a tribunal is a stressful business and employers steer clear of hiring someone who has, no matter how justified the reason, taken action against a former employer.

I took my former boss to a tribunal because he would not pay me my redundancy and I won, he didn’t even bother showing up..