Oh yes, CountessFosco. Every time I hear it, or its friend "almost unique", I can picture my DM with steam coming out of her ears. In fact, that whirring sound you hear as I type this will be her spinning in her grave!
Whom Tyler! The leader of the Pedants' Revolt! I made that comment, if indeed comment it is, to my eleven year old granddaughter over lunch in the Black Lion today. Of course she knew of Wat of that name, but 'Whom was an eyebrow raiser. Slowly, slowly it dawned on her, knowing me as she does, that it was not as it appeared on the face of it.
Agree about 'very unique". Misusing "decimate" annoys me, too. I know the modern meaning is less rigid, but the original meaning is the killing of one in ten - hence the "deci" bit.
Too few words rather than too many, but seeing someone described as "ethnic" annoys me. We're all "ethnic" of some description. Do they mean "ethnic minority", which of course means different things in different countries?
Going back to the original thread, I'll offer "meet with".