I have not been on here for a long time, well not posted anyway.
I’m just struggling with my situation with my daughter and my wee grandson.
I met my husband when my daughter was 12.
There was a lot of adjustment on both sides as he has 2 daughters too at much the same age. But just normal things that you’d expect.
We have had a few run ins with my daughter since she was 16.
She totally anhialated us all over social media for no reason and went to live on campus.
Then as we parents do, we forgave and forgot everything. Then when she was 18 she got involved with a much older man and a bit of a layabout so we told her we could not stop her seeing him but he would never be welcome in our home she argued she’d bring him in if she wanted. After a bit of to and fro she decided she was going to live with him and they got engaged.
We didn’t agree as did her whole family. Eventually she left him and everything was great till last year.
She had a little boy by then. We took him every weekend for her to allow her to have a life. And took him whenever she wanted us to. Looked after him while she went to university.
We had a fantastic relationship with her and him. My daughter and I have always been very close. Phoned each other every day and saw each other most days.
She told us she was bisexual a long time ago and 3 years ago she met a woman. We were really happy for them.
But last year everything just exploded.
For no reason
Suddenly she she wanted nothing to do with us. Told her wife and in laws, all her friend and all over social media that we were awful parents. We emotionally abused her. We threw her out when we knew she was in an abusive relationship, just loads of stuff that totally untrue.
But we can’t defend ourselves as she won’t talk to us and if we say anything she is threatening us not seeing our grandson.
She has allowed us to only see him one day twice a month. He misses us so much and keeps asking if we still love and want him. Cries when we take him home and doesn’t want to stay with his mum etc
My heart is breaking. I miss my daughter so much although I’m very angry at her.
But this little man is suffering and there is nothing I can do except keep telling him how much we love him and want him when we do see him.
I just don’t know what to do any more
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!