Yes, I’m being sarcastic with my title! It’s been a long time since I visited an estrangement forum. I just came to accept my fate. This weekend, I got another gut punch and just need to vent and get hear some kind words.
I’m 65 and raised my son, 45, on my own. We were off and on estranged his entire adult life, but, up until 7 years ago, he “allowed” me to see my grandkids. I picked them up from school every day and took them on weekend and summer road trips. One day, out of the blue, without warning, he told them they were no longer allowed to see me. He told THEM, not me. I found out in a text from my granddaughter. I tried to contact them a few times, but could tell they were anxious and I figured they were afraid their father would find out. So, for their sake, I just stopped.
I guess he worked his “magic” on them over the years as they are now 22 and I still haven’t heard from them. No, I haven’t tried to contact them other than running into my grandson shortly after they turned 18. He was VERY nervous, kept looking over his shoulder. I haven’t tried partly because I don’t want to cause them any trouble and partly because I couldn’t deal with their telling me they hate me
My son lives about a mile from me. I have no idea where the kids are or what they’re doing. They have zero social media presence. Saturday, I was looking at real estate for sale in my area as I often do, and my son has an offer on his house. It was devastating to see that and I don’t even know why it hurts so much! It’s like I had this one thin thread that still attached me to my grandchildren and now that’s gone.
I literally have no friends or other family. I have no one that I can even tell about this. If it weren’t for my dog, I would not even be alive to write this. Please help me.
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.
Army horses loose on London streets
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧