I hadn't really noticed this until recently when I stayed with a really good friend and she was talking about the people looking after her father in a care home. She was referring to one of the carers and she said: 'She's a big woman, but she's really nice.'
I let that one go, then later in the conversation she said; 'The head nurse is very large, but she's a kind person.'
Just to put some perspective on this, the speaker herself is a small woman, but in her career she dealt with the general public. I was quite astounded to hear her casually categorise people in this way.
This week, I was having dinner with some friends and noticed that one referred to his former colleague as 'nice and slim.' I have heard this many times before of course, but this time it stuck out somewhat.
It seems to me that there is genuine surprise when 'fat' people turn out to be 'nice.'
I think it's really sad. Any thoughts?
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