I was thinking about this the other day and wondered what others thought.
Since my OH died last year I have no real problem about living by myself in the sense that I can cope on my own and ask for help with heavy things.
What I find hard is living FOR myself - in other words having no-one else to please, to help, to cook for, to chat to. Everything I do now is for me, and me alone, but it was completely different throughout the rest of my life. I was in a caring profession, I cared for my children, I cared for my sick OH for many years.
Does anyone else find it hard to see the point of living entirely for oneself - or is this a self-esteem problem. I am not aware of lacking self-esteem.
I do do things for others: secretary of choral society, school governor, run a choir etc. etc. But the rest of the time I onoy have myself to please; and indeed doing these things is entirely my choice.
Anyone else thought about this?
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
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