pably15 get in touch with Citizens Advice and they will make sure you get any benefits you can get. Should beable to get Attendance Allowance for your husband. It's worth a try.
Make sure you have to hand your NI numbers , diagnosis, bank details, savings ,what pension you get and how much, whether you rent or own your property,if rented who do you rent from how much,if your home is owned with ot without a mortgage. Drs and consultant details. They may not need all the information but better to have to hand just in case. The more information you can give the better.
I contacted them about my husband's state pension. He died in 2004 aged 47 been told I will get 48p per week from my husband's contributions. I will get full state pension in April. They said I could get pension credit. I had to go too their office and spent 3 hours with the advisor and she helped me talked to DWP and they filled a form in and gave me a reference number to quote when I ring DWP on my birthday to see if I will get it or not. The advisor wrote down exactly what I have to say.
I think they do make home visits but not 100% certain.
Cabbie21 is brilliant about anything like this so might be worth sending her a PM . Her advice helped me when I had problems claiming PIP and having to go too the PIP tribunal.
Have you been in touch with Alzheimer's and dementia charity ? There may be help for you in your area . I never bothered when looking after my mom in hindsight wish I had.
Hope some of this may help . You are traveling a hard road and it's heartbreaking watching someone you love disappear as they died long before their bodies. Unfortunately last 4 months of mom's life she became violent but it was out of fear she didn't know who she was ,where or who I was. She thought I was her mom . But for all mom lost she always knew when she needed the commode and never wet or soiled herself. In her lucid moments before things got this bad she insisted on wearing a pad like a thick tena lady as she was frightened of wetting the bed. I am proud of the fact my mom never had a sore on her body.
But I didn't realise how much it cost me healthwise. Please look after yourself and make sure you eat and drink . It's very easy to neglect yourself . 💐